Chris Tompkins

Why some gay men feel alone even around others, and how to change it. For many gay men, loneliness often stems from unspoken feelings and unmet emotional needs. Hiding parts of ourselves to avoid judgment can create chronic isolation. Healing begins when we speak honestly about how we feel and let ourselves be seen. Loneliness is one of the most common issues that comes up in the work I do with gay men. Regardless of age, it’s a topic that is often talked about in therapy. Gay men's...

Subtle messages teach gay men to stay small, but healing helps us to expand. Many gay men grow up learning that acceptance comes with...